What’s Surprising about Beyoncé’s Latest Album

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Mother, wife, sister, friend, writer / blogger / creative organizer, budding photographer... These are just a few of the many hats I juggle each day. I believe creativity is oxygen for the soul. I created Live In Color blog to celebrate the beauty in every moment, from faith to inspiration and motherhood.And it is soon becoming Pray with Our Feet blog which will focus on the intersection of faith and activism. Follow the inspiration on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/praywithourfeetblog/
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Innovation: The act of starting something for the first time; introducing something new; founding, origination, initiation, creation, institution, or introduction.

We all thought Beyoncé and her team were on hiatus, and boom, overnight she brings us new music. Our weekly grind just became easier, huh? Her self-titled album has social media buzzing, with record downloads. Quite simply, its a hit; 400,000 copies sold in under 6 hours.

I’ll be honest. I had a complete attitude. Why? Well, my relationship with Beyoncé could easily be characterized as love/hate. While I identify and admire her sensuality and talent, sometimes I despise what feels inauthentic about her persona. Well, she broke down my walls, and I’m sure thousands of others with this album.

It’s her most raw piece of work. Powerful, impactful, soulful and mature. She is a wife and mother; this is unapologetic
grown-woman music. There is nothing gimmicky or mainstream. Beyoncé is raunchy, descriptive and X-rated. And, you know what, I love it!

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Footage from the video, Drunk In Love

I’m especially feelin’ these lines something serious:

“Then I fill the tub up halfway then ride it with my surfboard.

Surfboard, surfboard…

Graining on that wood, graining, graining on that wood.

I’m swerving on that, swerving, swerving on that big body Benz.

Serving all this, swerve, surfing all of this good, good.”

“Drunk in Love” is definitely the breakout single. I’m sure it is responsible for several hangovers and counter sex. It’s one of my favorites. Your girl is dealing with a headache from injuring herself after attempting to reenact the video.

Blow,” another vivid, sexually-charged song has a classic R&B vibe. Is it me, or is it clear she and her husband, music mogul Jay-Z have a healthy sex life. What’s the result for us? Steamy music with character. She alludes to mild discord in their relationship with  songs like “Jealous,” or the duet with Drake, “Mine.” What relationship is not complicated?

There are other standout tracks for me. The collaboration with Frank Ocean (“I Miss You“) is classic. While her dedication to baby daughter Blue is sweet; so many mothers can relate.

Earlier this year she released “I Been On,” revamped on the album as “Flawless,” where she proclaims herslef Queen of Pop; she tells all of us to “Bow down, bitches!” You all can take that bow; I’ll stand.

You make good music, Beyonce; you have me doing all different kinds of things with it. I play the introduction to “Flawless” featuring Nigerian author and feminist Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie for my 11-year-old twin girls every morning; the words are intelligent and inspirational.

They tell girls it is ok to be great:

We teach girls to shrink themselves, to make themselves smaller.

We say to girls you can have ambition, but not too much.

You should aim to be successful, but not too successful,

otherwise you will threaten the man.”

This brings me back to the definition of innovative: a new way. Why is Beyonce so successful? She is ever changing, and thinking of novel ways to perform. She aligns herself with smart, trustworthy people, who genuinely want her to succeed. If something goes wrong, she corrects it. She keeps us on our toes,  or now our surfboards.

Will we sing any of these songs 20 years from now? I’ll let time tell that story. Will I be in my fifties saying: “We woke up in the kitchen, wondering how this shit happened. Oh, baby!” I hope so! I want to write a personal thank you letter for this album.

Hopefully, over the next week you can find some time to listen. Let me know what you think.

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 Live In Color! – Valencia

3 Women, 3 Different Lives, With 1 Cause

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Emelda De Coteau

Mother, wife, sister, friend, writer / blogger / creative organizer, budding photographer... These are just a few of the many hats I juggle each day. I believe creativity is oxygen for the soul. I created Live In Color blog to celebrate the beauty in every moment, from faith to inspiration and motherhood.And it is soon becoming Pray with Our Feet blog which will focus on the intersection of faith and activism. Follow the inspiration on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/praywithourfeetblog/
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Valencia, Shannon and I (left to right)
Photo Credit: Keston De Coteau

Valencia (or V as I say), hair stylist and diva for days, is an energetic and loving mother of six beautiful children committed to success. V speaks her truth without apology or a second blink. She’s a pull yourself up by your stilettos kinda lady. Period.

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Beauty / Style Editor, Valencia Pearl
Photo Credit: Keston De Coteau

Shannon (or Shan as I call her) never met a pair of cowboy boots or timberlands she didn’t like; she writes and sings freedom music. Big ideas keep her up at night, and she relentlessly pursues them. Oh, and Shan has some famous big cousins, too. Have you seen Braxton Family Values?

Blog Co-Editor, Shannon-Eli Braxton
Photo Credit: Keston
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My roots are spilt between Honduras, the South, and East Baltimore. They call me a workaholic and activist (my husband Kes says I want to save the world), but I am simply committed to the passion of purpose. Heart warrior, poet, standing tall in heels any day of the week (doesn’t every good fashionista?); faith and family nurture my soul.

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Blog Founder / Editor, Emelda De Coteau
Photo Credit: Keston De Coteau

3 women, 3 different lives, with 1 Cause. What’s that? Living life in color and on purpose, while inspiring and empowering you to do the same.

Well, last Sunday, despite frigid chilly November air and relentless winds, we tucked away our insecurities and fatigue. We headed to Baltimore’s Herring Run Park for our fall photo shoot, big girl shoes and all, y’all.  Glamour on an otherwise mundane Sunday afternoon. Check!

Shan and I spent the weekend obsessing about our hair, makeup, and clothes; as we drove over together in the car, we anxiously checked the mirror. Was every hair in place? Eye shadow defined?

Yet in the end, it all comes down to collaboration, those moments of magic when everything coalesces without effort or pretense. Keston (Keystone Productions) my husband and creative partner, shot these photos in under thirty minutes, while our children played, even throwing the leaves you see in these photographs.  This is part of what it means to live in color! You embrace the flow, and let go.

American media deceives us, convinces women jealousy and bickering are second nature. “Reality shows” portray us at one another’s throats for entertainment – particularly women of color. Over and over again, the message repeats: “Women don’t get along.”

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Valencia, Shannon and I
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Photo Credit: Keston De Coteau

Well, ultimately, it’s up to us to shut out the noise. Refuse the boxes; their narrow definitions of femininity. We can and do get along, every day. Collaboration is beautiful and liberating! Valencia, Shannon and I dwell in possibility, as poet Emily Dickinson once wrote. Three women, three different lives, with one cause – living fully and color! Come along with us on this journey; you will soar.

Live In Color! – Emelda

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