Living by Faith (Blog Series): Writer and Podcaster Tiffany T. Huff

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I met Tiffany during an Instagram chat last year, and I have been following along ever since. I am always inspired and filled with renewed faith after reading her posts or listening to her on Periscope. This dynamic woman of God drops no-nonsense gems, and encourages us to walk in authenticity and devotion to our Creator, while building a personal relationship. Grab a cup of tea, relax and get into this goodness!

Tiffany T. Huff Writer, Podcaster and Sacred Self-Care Visionary

Everyone of us must discover faith for ourselves. When did it move from religion to relationship for you? 

I grew up going to church with my family. When my parents divorced we went intermittently. When I was 13 I decided for myself to get baptized and then through high school and college I went to church intermittently. In my heart I could always feel God tugging, but I wasn’t ready to invest fully and consistently into the relationship. (Le sigh)

In 2007, I moved to North Carolina briefly and that is where I had my first personal, distinct encounter with God and when I actually learned He desired a relationship with me, and I began to willingly, and intentionally engage in relationship with Him.

Before sharing your journey of faith with readers, how do you prepare – prayer, meditation, worship music, etc.?

I have a morning ritual which helps set the tone for my day, and oftentimes before I pour out to anyone. Definitely prayer and meditation are part of this. Prayer for me is often inclusive of reading my devotional and the word. After prayer and meditation I journal and just empty out whatever God puts on my heart. In this time I often get what i call “divine downloads.”

These practices have really helped me to become more in tune with my own voice, the voice of God and the presence of the The Holy Spirit which in essence directs how I am able to serve others through my writing, coaching and other work.

How do you hear God speaking to you in daily life? 

I talk to God all day! Lol! And while He doesn’t always respond immediately I do hear from Him at various times of the day. Most often though, I hear from Him early in the morning – like before the sun comes up when I am in my morning practice of prayer and meditation or at night – when I am trying to go to sleep. He never ceases to amaze me with those late night – get out of the bed and talk to me invitations

What advice do you have for readers who want to deepen their relationship with God but feel overwhelmed or intimidated by it all? 

I advise others all the time to approach their relationship, getting to know God better as you would another relationship. Invite God to coffee and give him your undivided attention. Share with Him, allow Him into your deep dark – and light spaces, and create space for him to do the same. Sometimes, all it takes is the initiation of the conversation, letting God know you have the desire to get to know him better. It doesn’t have to be a big elaborate event but I do think He deserves to be invited into a sacred space with you where He feels welcome and knows its just the two of you. He needs to know He is important and a priority.

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Monday Motivation Moment: Why We Must Keep Going, No Matter What 

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I woke up Saturday and Sunday morning greeting bleak skies and a thin blanket of ice delicately masking trees and grass. It’s the kind of weather which drives me to retreat under covers (as long as our daughter Nai will let me) and grab hold of leggings and boots.

And, well, friends, these last few years have remained full of challenges and disappointments. I sometimes struggle with gnawing depression and doubt, yet each time these feelings threaten to obscure my vision, God sends a word either through a song, conversation, preached word or a physical sign (mine is deer) I pray to see daily.

Wisdom from an Email 

Yesterday, I heard this message loudly after clicking on a link from an email sent by Jonathan Morrow, renowned blogger and social media strategist: “keep going, pushing, no matter what…”

The longer I ingested his words about following your dreams relentlessly and shutting out negativity, the more determined I became to start blogging again. Yes, school took up lots of time this past month, but let me stand in some truth with y’all. I hit a creative slump.

I could post on Instagram for the blog, but somehow I couldn’t push myself to write here. Frankly, I spread myself thin, and all I craved was sleep or escape in those rare spare moments.

But if this is what I love doing (and I do), being present, communicating and interacting with you all in this space has to become a priority, too.  Writing, for me, is a lifeline. And when I am shut off from it, part of me begins to wither.

Circumstances Do Not Define Us 

Jon has a neuromuscular disorder called Spinal Muscular Atrophy, which makes his body weak; he cannot move from the neck down, and yet, he founded a successful blog (On Moneymaking), sold it for five figures and is an Associate Editor of Problogger, one of the most popular blogs in the world.

Consider this… He speaks his thoughts into a machine because he cannot type them out. This didn’t deter him from excelling in blogging, social media strategy and developing courses to help his fellow writers. And oh how these words resonate deeply:

Because listen … I know it’s horribly cliché, but if I can quit my job, risk the government carting me off to a nursing home because I can’t afford my own healthcare, convince my poor mother to abandon her career and drive my crippled butt 3,000 miles to a foreign country, and then make enough money to support myself, my mother, my father, and an entire nursing staff using nothing but my voice, then what can you accomplish if you really set your mind to it?

My guess: pretty much anything.

No, it won’t be easy. At some point, I guarantee you’ll want to quit. I guarantee people will treat you like you’re insane. I guarantee you’ll cry yourself to sleep, wondering if you made a horrible mistake.

But never stop believing in yourself. The world is full of naysayers, all of them eager to shout you down at the slightest indication you might transcend mediocrity, but the greatest sin you can commit is to yourself become one of them. Our job isn’t to join that group, but to silence it, to accomplish things so great and unimaginable that its members are too awed to speak.

After I reached the end of his article, I thought, what the heck is stopping me? Me. I am! Maybe you are, too? Far too many of us allow fear of failure and suffocating feelings of inadequacy to stifle our dreams.

The good news?

You and I can get out of our own way.

When the negative thoughts and words come (as they will), counter each one with affirmations, begin to speak the language of possibility, call those things not as though they were (Romans 4:17).

Keep pushing. Keep going.

Victory is already yours.

Why Leaving Our Cell Phones Home Some Days is a Good Thing

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“I imagine a world where we smile when we have low batteries, cause that will mean we’ll be one bar closer to humanity.”
– Prince EA, “Can We Autocorrect Humanity?”

The other day I left my house in a flurry, chasing a luxury which eludes me mostly (and many other women) –  a few hours for myself. Then I did something which is rare for this organized Mama – I left my cell phone home.

I panicked, y’all. You know the tense feeling that floods your gut, nearly overtaking you. Yep, there I sat, in rush hour traffic, praying for a red light so I could continue digging for my phone.

I remembered packing my Kindle, but soon discovered that battery was nearly dead, too. I know. I am an addict. Did I just type those words?

Finally, I made peace with the silence, and became present. No checking my apps or scanning for music. I simply sat, surrending to contemplation.

Funny thing happened along the drive to the salon… I noticed buildings previously ignored, rolled down my window and heard  the natural rhythmic movement of city life anew. Ideas for blog posts filtered in one after another – and all because I allowed my mind to rest.

Perhaps we should all leave our cell phones and mobile devices home more often; digital fatigue is real. And in many ways, friends, this push and pull to stay connected is changing us. Rest is becoming a mirage in a world obsessed with productivity and multitasking.

We fill our moments with checking emails and social media, jumping to answer text messages, and apologizing for late responses. Is it really that awful if we take a few days to reply to someone?

Spoken word artist Prince EA has a line from his song “Can we Auto Correct Humanity?” that comes to mind in this moment: “Did you know the average person spends four years of their life looking at a cell phone?”

Let’s take our years back now.